I have never had a 'normal' friendship. They have always been weird and impossible, this is probably why none of them have worked out... Well all except one. Oddly enough this particular friendship was the one I thought was not going to work; I thought this because so much had happened. First I told him that if he ever tallied to me again I would punch him in the face, and the. When I did start talking to him again it was great right up until he would randomly decide to stop talking to me. We also had other challenges; such as, we would always fight (physically and verbally), we were very competitive, and could never just agree to disagree. There were many more issues but that list is to long too go into. Pretty much, our friendship should have been impossible. You may be thinking, "If there were so many issues then how did it work?" I'll tell you, one day I got tired of him deciding whether or not we would be friends and went to talk to him about it. When we talked we discussed how we did things to make the other upset and how we kept doing them because we were unaware of the affect it had. After we had this conversation I took a couple days to look at my self as a friend and to think about what I could do to make me a better friend. Since we have had this dicussion our friendship has only grown. He hasn't randomly stopped talking to me and is actually disappointed if we don't get the chance to speak. We challenge each other but it's not to see who is better than the other, it's to encourage each other to be a better person. Being his friend and going through all other this with him has taught me many things; like, how to love someone who doesn't believe they deserve it, how to set aside my pride for the sake of friendship, and on a less serious note; how to mosh. Now I couldn't imagine not hugging him everyday or not being able to just talk all night. I guess you could say the point of this blog is to show you that friendships aren't easy and they are a bit like a marriage. It takes hardwork and compromise from both parties order for it to work
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